It all just seems a bit much for me, especially the public rituals.
In other news, I just brought "Go Set A Watchman" home from the library. I hope I don't reget it since I have had a crush on Atticus FOR-EV-ER.
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Christian Domestic Discipline Relationship
Roles and Expectations
Principles
Communication
Rules and Discipline
Pledges and Rituals
ROLES and EXPECTATIONS
The Family Leader
is known as the Christian Family Leader. He is in charge and makes all
important decisions and anything he deems necessary for his female
submissive partner and family. He has the authority to delegate. He has
the expectation of obedience with a positive attitude. He has
responsibility to care for the well-being and discipline of the female
submissive partner and family.
The submissive
female role obeys and belongs to the Family Leader. Her expectation is
to be loved, cared for, protected, lead, taught, guided and disciplined.
PRINCIPLES
As a Family Leader I believe and abide by the following principles.
The Family Leader, his submissive partner and family owe allegiance to God, community, country, special friends and loved ones.
Submission is a precious gift given to the Family Leader.
The Bible teaches us about all Christian values and important lessons to guide us all.
Free will and what our mind can do and imagine belongs to each of us by the grace of God.
Submission should be given from free will.
The female submissive body and will are given to her Family Leader.
The Family Leader
must love, care for, protect, provide, rule, command, consider and
discipline the submissive partner and family.
The submissive partner must obey, respect and thank her Family Leader with a respectful and loving tone.
The submissive partner and family must cooperate with the Family Leader for the well-being of all concerned.
The submissive
learns when to defer, when to confer and when to decide on her own as
taught and disciplined by her Family Leader.
COMMUNICATION
The preferred
method of communication by the Family Leader is to be clear and concise
with an assertive or commanding tone. It is his choice to be comforting
or stern as needed, not angry or abusive.
The submissive
must address her Family Leader with respect and gratitude. The Family
Leader decides the tone and will enforce it as needed. The submissive
can be commanded to obey, respond in a very specific way and repeat to
confirm back to her Family Leader until she gets it right.
The submissive
will be allowed to express her concerns and relevant issues, emotions
and requests for her Family Leader to agree, permit or execute. This
open communication will be within a constructive context with clear
limits.
The Family Leader
is to practice active listening to best learn about the needs, wants,
emotions, intentions and all relevant issues/concerns of the submissive
and family. The goal is to be clear to make informed choices and
decisions. The Family Leader is to be mature enough to recognize when he
is wrong after careful, rational consideration. He can express regrets
and apologize without losing respect. He should take responsibility for
his decisions.
RULES
The Family Leader
sets rules that he teaches, commands and enforces with his submissive
partner and family. The rules reflect the values of the Family Leader,
submissive, family, community and country.
The Family Leader
teaches each specific rule to ensure agreement and clear obedience. If a
rule is in dispute there will be a respectful way of deciding if the
rule should be changed or cancelled. Ultimate authority belongs to the
Family Leader within Christian values. The Family Leader uses
proportional discipline to enforce rules. Discipline must be accepted
by the submissive. When commanded the submissive must admit that she
broke a rule, ask for her discipline and thank her Family Leader in a
grateful tone after receiving it. The Family Leader decides if he
comforts the submissive after discipline or a teaching session.
Principles are taught and reinforced by the Family Leader.
PLEDGES and RITUALS
The Family Leader
pledges to her submissive partner to love, care for, protect, provide,
rule, command, consider and discipline her and the family.
The submissive
pledges to obey, respect and cooperate with her Family Leader. She
states that her body and will are given to her Family Leader.
Rituals are
performed to signify the beginning or end of each important stage of the
relationship. The Family Leader rewards his submissive for her
obedience, respect, cooperation and submission. The rituals can be
private or a celebration with family and/or carefully selected special
friends and loved ones.
