It all just seems a bit much for me, especially the public rituals.
In other news, I just brought "Go Set A Watchman" home from the library. I hope I don't reget it since I have had a crush on Atticus FOR-EV-ER.
Christian Domestic Discipline Relationship
Roles and Expectations
Rules and Discipline
Pledges and Rituals
ROLES and EXPECTATIONS
The Family Leader is known as the Christian Family Leader. He is in charge and makes all important decisions and anything he deems necessary for his female submissive partner and family. He has the authority to delegate. He has the expectation of obedience with a positive attitude. He has responsibility to care for the well-being and discipline of the female submissive partner and family.
The submissive female role obeys and belongs to the Family Leader. Her expectation is to be loved, cared for, protected, lead, taught, guided and disciplined.
As a Family Leader I believe and abide by the following principles.
The Family Leader, his submissive partner and family owe allegiance to God, community, country, special friends and loved ones.
Submission is a precious gift given to the Family Leader.
The Bible teaches us about all Christian values and important lessons to guide us all.
Free will and what our mind can do and imagine belongs to each of us by the grace of God.
Submission should be given from free will.
The female submissive body and will are given to her Family Leader.
The Family Leader must love, care for, protect, provide, rule, command, consider and discipline the submissive partner and family.
The submissive partner must obey, respect and thank her Family Leader with a respectful and loving tone.
The submissive partner and family must cooperate with the Family Leader for the well-being of all concerned.
The submissive learns when to defer, when to confer and when to decide on her own as taught and disciplined by her Family Leader.
The preferred method of communication by the Family Leader is to be clear and concise with an assertive or commanding tone. It is his choice to be comforting or stern as needed, not angry or abusive.
The submissive must address her Family Leader with respect and gratitude. The Family Leader decides the tone and will enforce it as needed. The submissive can be commanded to obey, respond in a very specific way and repeat to confirm back to her Family Leader until she gets it right.
The submissive will be allowed to express her concerns and relevant issues, emotions and requests for her Family Leader to agree, permit or execute. This open communication will be within a constructive context with clear limits.
The Family Leader is to practice active listening to best learn about the needs, wants, emotions, intentions and all relevant issues/concerns of the submissive and family. The goal is to be clear to make informed choices and decisions. The Family Leader is to be mature enough to recognize when he is wrong after careful, rational consideration. He can express regrets and apologize without losing respect. He should take responsibility for his decisions.
The Family Leader sets rules that he teaches, commands and enforces with his submissive partner and family. The rules reflect the values of the Family Leader, submissive, family, community and country.
The Family Leader teaches each specific rule to ensure agreement and clear obedience. If a rule is in dispute there will be a respectful way of deciding if the rule should be changed or cancelled. Ultimate authority belongs to the Family Leader within Christian values. The Family Leader uses proportional discipline to enforce rules. Discipline must be accepted by the submissive. When commanded the submissive must admit that she broke a rule, ask for her discipline and thank her Family Leader in a grateful tone after receiving it. The Family Leader decides if he comforts the submissive after discipline or a teaching session.
Principles are taught and reinforced by the Family Leader.
PLEDGES and RITUALS
The Family Leader pledges to her submissive partner to love, care for, protect, provide, rule, command, consider and discipline her and the family.
The submissive pledges to obey, respect and cooperate with her Family Leader. She states that her body and will are given to her Family Leader.
Rituals are performed to signify the beginning or end of each important stage of the relationship. The Family Leader rewards his submissive for her obedience, respect, cooperation and submission. The rituals can be private or a celebration with family and/or carefully selected special friends and loved ones.